Normally, I would have done a "Half and Half" day when going to the dentist. I had scheduled a weekday visit to the dentist (which usually involves me presenting as a male), followed by work (which usually involves me presenting as a female). However, in a chat with the dentist's receptionist, I outed myself to her, and she said that I should come in as a female one day - so I did! And it was fun. More importantly, it was convenient!
Now that I am out to him, I don't have to do any more half and half days when going to the dentist - this will save me at least an hour's worth of time each time I get my teeth worked on. And it is one more step in my path to femininity. But is it worth it?
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A while back, XGFJ said that she feared me being on this path. The reality is that she probably was never comfortable with me, but sent mixed signals throughout our relationship. If she had bothered to express her feelings properly and negotiate, I would have set limits to how far down this path I'd have gone. Now, I have decided to attend meetings of every meetup group that she doesn't want for me to attend - only because I need to show her that she has no right to demand I not attend these groups, her feelings be damned. But I will attend only those gatherings that I'd want to attend because they do something for me other than rub her the wrong way.
I don't know if I'll ever get into "her" dinner group. They like to pick known regulars over newcomers. So it will mean that I have to keep trying for a while and hope for the best. However, if there is a meeting open to newcomers, I'll try for it.
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I won't go into any details about work - that would violate my oath. But we're being kept busy trying to clean up the mess brought upon us by the pandemic. In the past, I'd feel comfortable giving a census job to anyone who applied for one. Now, if the person is immuno-compromised, or in one of the known risk groups, I'll look out for the health of the applicant over the needs of the census bureau. At least, we are moving forward, having places to do our training. Hopefully, we will have a reasonably accurate head count, as required by law....
