My journey towards femininity, with all the bumps in the road. Who knows where this road will lead? But it certainly will be a prettier road, and one well worth traveling.
A while back, I mentioned a conversation I had with someone interrogating me regarding my dating success and other things. The entire conversion is posted at the bottom of this entry for your entertainment.
Most of my female friends complain about the number of scammers trying to take advantage of them. I have found that men seem to be attacked less frequently, but are attacked by two kinds of people: (1) The "hit and run" scammer, who messages you and tries to get in contact with you by other mediums (email, etc.) before the dating site shuts their ID down, and (2) The "interrogator" scammer, who wants a complete profile before targeting you for their next sugar daddy. Most of the time, OK Cupid shuts the former type down after a few hours of swiping right on everyone they see. However, they are less able to keep the latter type from bothering people. The first time I was in contact with this type, she gave up on scamming me and cut off contact. The conversation below is from the second type.
First, some background: This exchange took place shortly after Thanksgiving. This woman is supposedly in the catering business. You'll note that she's hinting that I am a fake early on. And, she made a comment out of the blue regarding Black people lovable people. What does that have to do with the conversation we're having? Most of all, her language skills clued me on to the fact that this person is a scam artist of some type.
Enjoy!
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Hi
Hi _ hope you had a nice holiday. Hopefully, the pandemic hasn't destroyed your business. All too many people have been destroyed by the pandemic, one of my friend was $800 away from being evicted from her home in Texas.
Im still ok
Being okay in this time of the pandemic is a good thing period. One person I know is so busy because she lost an employee and is now working seven days per week. These are strange times.
Only bored
I hope you haven’t lost much of your income stream. So many people I know have been devastated
A bit
Do u travel alone
Both alone and with a partner
Lost that friend a year ago due to a nasty argument
Ohhh a lot of ladies
Can we have vedio call
Maybe tomorrow or Tuesday. Too tired tonight.
Ok why tired
How many gf since u lost ur wife
Have been on phone for 3.5 hours. 7. Over 24 years.
Ur chatting a lot
I dont chat much wasting time on fake people
But im in phone whole day
Fb u tube
Do you do zoom? We could chat in evening
And yes I do chat a lot.
Have u encountered fake people
Some fakes. One crazy person was criticizing me for not optimally managing my money. It was as if she wanted to scam me out of my money
Ok
Do u rent or own a place
I have found that women are more victims of scammers than men. One of my female friends get hit on by scammers every day, and shares her experiences with me. It’s amazing how bad the scammers are.
I live in a co-op. It’s a nice garden apartment.
Yes
How about you?
In nyork!!!
Yup. In NY
I live with my daughter now but i have 4 houses in philippines
2 rented out
Ah
N i free for my workers
Yes
What is ur weight
U are retired
Yes, retired
Whats ur job before
Computers
Are u committed now
Single
I think black man are lovable person
Why do you think that?
They keep on sending messages
Ah
Sending flowers
Not true of all
But i dont chat them
I dont talk to fake people
I dont like wasting time
Can’t blame you. I’m careful too
How long u been here in site
A few months
Ohh
I always ask vedio call
I’m not in a hurry
Actually im tired
I usually Try to meet in person for coffee first. Video calls are good, but they do not show that the person is local.
Ok bye for now
Bye
What u mean local
For example, if a person says they are from Fort Lee New Jersey, I want to meet them at a Starbucks in Fort Lee New Jersey. This way I am not getting a scammer from overseas.
