A while back, I lost a Valentine's Day card I had bought for XGFJ. (No, it was not the card above.) So I ended up buying her another card, relatively neutral in sentiment, as I wasn't sure about our relationship at the time. Later on, I found that this was a problem for her, given things said by my former cruise partner in an angry exchange of words. So, my original card was lost in the mess on my desk until recently.
The other day, I decided to look for this card, as I would be spending Valentine's day with RQS, and thought that the card I originally bought for XGFJ would be perfect for RQS. I found this card, intact and ready to be used. (I'm glad that I didn't write anything in the card, as I would have had to go and find something I liked just as much.)
Would you use an unused Valentine's Day card if you bought it for use with a former love, but now use it with a current love? It's certainly not an engagement ring which should be sized for a woman's fingers. So, is this being cheap? Or, is this being frugal?
