Today, I arranged to meet someone (as a friend, not a date) in the area that my ex girlfriend lives. We decided to go for a walk on the nearby rail trail, and I'm hoping it's cool enough for me to be walking in Marian mode.
If things had worked in the way we could have stayed friends, I'd have found a way to stop by and say hello to the ex. But this did not happen. Instead, there's a part of me that thought I could twist the knife a little and tell her that I was in the area and not wanting to bother with someone who was no longer a friend. However, I thought better of it - why bother dealing with someone whose memory no longer has any value to you?
Thinking a little bit more, I would have a big laugh if we were to encounter my ex on the rail trail. Of course, I'd have to ask my new friend to play it up a little - as I would want for her to see that someone in better shape than she is could find a transgender person like me interesting enough to date.
What do you think of this?
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