Last night, I called RQS and Vicki had a chat with her. This triggered some thoughts in RQS's head, and she's not yet comfortable seeing Mario turn into Marian.... She didn't realize that we'd be spending the day together with me in Marian mode while going up to a store north of here to do some dress shopping. I told her not to worry, as I will not push her into meeting Marian until she's ready to do so. She echoed something XGFJ mentioned after we broke up, that there were 3 people in this relationship. In a way, she's right, and it's something not always easy for someone to be comfortable thinking about. I told her that she doesn't have to meet me in Marian mode until she is comfortable - and that's my highest concern.
XGFJ said several things after we broke up, some of which conflicted with each other regarding me as Marian. (No, I won't go into them here.) But I will say that RQS is much more articulate in expressing her concerns, and that we have a better chance of having a long term relationship. The big question is: How best to introduce me (as Marian) to RQS, so that she isn't uncomfortable. Hopefully, I will have an answer to that question soon.
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