It was a day off from the census, and I decided to accompany FL to see a house she was thinking of renting on the Jersey shore. There is a big difference between driving 90 minutes through the Hudson Valley to see my ex girlfriend and 120 minutes driving through New Jersey to reach FL. And I know that this will become a factor in the relationship as it develops....
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Right now, I have to think of how I will extricate myself from FH. She's a nice woman, but I don't think I want to deal with the headaches of a girlfriend who can't drive and won't use mass transit in the age of COVID-19. Yes, she's willing to spend $70+ on an Uber to get to Westchester. But I don't like the idea of driving to the Catskills, then drive her back to Long Island. Something bothers me, and it's related to the inconveniences of dating someone who has limited transit mobility at a time mass transit poses an infection risk.
In regard to FL, the drive to Brick and back was a way of seeing whether FL could be comfortable with me in Marian Mode. Even though there was no hanky-panky, she was comfortable putting her hand in mine and laying it on my skirted leg. This is a very positive sign. Yes, the first time we get intimate, I'll be dressed as Mario. But she has no objection for me to be dressed as Marian.
In many ways, my ex may have done me a favor by breaking up with me. FL is making an effort to be comfortable with me both as Marian and as Mario. I only wonder - is there something I should be concerned about that I'm not sensing?
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