Until early next year, it will not be prudent to schedule more vacations than already in the docket. Yet, I would like to find a couple of overnight (or weekend) trips we can make from NYC at a minimal cost. Given that we can get to most major Eastern cities at a reasonable cost on Amtrak, the cost of travel (in both time and money) will not be an issue. Instead, it is the choice of where to go.
I expect that hotel stays will be the biggest expense for us, followed by dining, transportation and miscellaneous expenses. We've narrowed the list of places to visit to the following 3 cities: Boston, Philadelphia, and Washington, DC. Boston and Philadelphia are cities I have not developed a feel for yet, so I'd like to explore them when possible.
What does this say about other cities? My impression of many other cities is that they do not have enough attractions for us to spend a weekend in the city, and that we would need a car to get around because of the paucity of good mass transit. In addition, many cities in the Red States are hostile to all but cisgender people. Although I will be flying to Chicago in the Fall, it is one of the few cities outside the Northeast that I have found have enough things to do and is safe for me to visit while presenting as a female.
Even if I decided to travel as Mario, the issue of mass transit is important. Most modern American cities have evolved around a Post-WW2 Car Culture. Mass transit has been neglected, as people seem to prefer cocooned commutes to work. Years ago, Los Angeles had one of the best public transit systems in the USA. Now, it is trying to replace what it lost in the 1950's. When I visit LA later on this year, I will be reluctant to take buses to reach my uncle's current residence, and will spend much more money taking an Uber for the trip. Unfortunately, all too many American cities have become like LA, and this limits my choices for weekend trips.
Luckily, this doesn't rule out travel to Canada, even if I have to take a plane to get there. Although Mount Royal (Montreal) is a quick ride North for me, I don't want to visit a place which penalizes people for using English in what is supposed to be a bilingual nation. In the USA, we're seeing the use of Spanish change us into a bilingual nation. And for the most part, we accommodate Spanish speakers much more than Quebec accommodates English speakers. Instead, I would likely go to Toronto, a great city and one worth exploring at leisure. Having been there before, I can say that the Theater and Restaurant scenes in Toronto make the city a great place to visit.
Yes, I have my prejudices in where I will travel. But who doesn't? This New Yorker will only go where I feel welcome, safe, and where I can get around with ease.
