Why do I bring up the past, even in passing?
My air conditioner sleeve was being reset today, so that water condensate would drain outside instead of inside. The ex made a comment (very true) regarding my use of the air conditioner and its use to me. It is one of the things we can safely talk about without dredging up uncomfortable topics. Since we got off on the wrong foot after our breakup when I talked about dating again, I don't want to talk about any of my dates with her. Even then, I brought up FH, as this was another woman who left me with a sour taste in my mouth.
I've been chatting with a woman in New Jersey for a while, and it is time to see her in person. Hopefully, we will get along in person over time as well as we've been getting along on the phone. It is not the time to mention this to the ex, but not because she would object. Instead, I would rather wait until I have a new relationship before mentioning it to the past one. No, not to rub things in. Instead, as part of a healing process we both need to go through.
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Contractor personnel was on site early in the day, and I had to let them into the place to get an idea of what they would need to do in the afternoon. Starting around 1:15 or so, they were done with inside work around 3:15 or so, but were still working on the outside of the building after 4:45. I can only guess what contractor will be charging for this work. And when I do find out, I won't be mentioning it here, as this is between only the board and the contractor.
Back to the dinner....
We had agreed on a Chinese restaurant that I had gone to before. When I got there, I found that it was open - but not for dining in. So when my date arrived, we had to punt. Instead of having Chinese again (I had eaten at a local Chinese joint the day before), we decided to eat at the Pizzeria next door. Although the place was noisy, the food was good and the conversation was pleasant. Afterwards, it was dessert at an ice cream shop down the road - another place I knew of because of TCL.
We'll see what happens with this woman. She has a nice personality, but I'm not so sure if I'm attracted enough to get physical with her. (And of course, I still have to reveal Marian to her....)
