How much is too much? That is a question I have to ask as I clean up my apartment. During the pandemic, I had allowed clutter to reach a critical mass. And, I allowed myself to be entertained by online retail therapy. In cleaning out the place, I've already donated several bags of clothing to charity, and will likely to donate more in the near future.
One of my weaknesses is to surf the web for dresses that both fit me and will look good on me. Most cisgender females do not own as many dresses as I own. But I wasn't able to wear dresses until I reached my 50's. So, in a way, I'm making up for lost time. Yet, as I develop my own sense of style, I end up tossing dresses that no longer fit my needs. In the past, I would stand out because I was wearing dresses when cisgender women would default to wearing trouser like garments. Now, I have a style which includes these garments when appropriate to wear them.
If one is a lucky transgender person, one will have the resources to make the mistakes I've made while coming into her own. A word of warning to people newly out - you will stand out like a sore thumb as I did. To some, we may look like drag queens, as we go too far in our attempts to look female. Over time, things will fit into place, and you will blend in if you try to do so. This might just be a function of finding out how much is too much....
