The other night, as I was coming home on the second to last train of the night, I noticed one of the signs of autumn - frost on the windshield of my car. Although I will still have need of my summer clothes on my upcoming cruise, most of them can now be safely put into storage containers for a few months.
Soon, New York City's fanciest stores will have their holiday displays in their storefront windows, and Macy's Thanksgiving Parade will march through Midtown Manhattan. It will be one of the best times to visit this city - if one's flights aren't cancelled and if one can afford the nightly rates at a Midtown Hotel. As for me, someone who lives near the city, I will avoid the tourist districts like the plague, as it's the time for pickpockets to collect easy money. For others, it will be the Christmas Shoplifting Season. Yes, I am a New York City cynic. But it is the right of every New Yorker to trash their home city - if only to discourage visitors from coming and allow leaving the room for locals to enjoy their city as well.
Ask any New Yorker, and you find that most have a love/hate relationship with their city. For me, it's a place that my rights as a TG person are respected, not denied. It is a city where most people feel free to live the lives that they choose, and not have their lives imposed on them by a dysfunctional culture. It's a city that seems to be the center of everything - if you can't find something here, it probably doesn't exist.
Yes, New York has it's problems. We have the crime rate expected in a typical American city. Yet, young people have always flocked to it because it is the home of great opportunities. From its beginning, New York's focus has always been a place where "money talks, and shit walks." When Christian settlers complained about Jews in their then remote outpost of the Dutch, the Dutch West India Company didn't care - they wanted the then Niew Amsterdam to have its focus on making money Both tolerance for "the other" and a focus on making money is the foundation of New York's culture and will always be the case.
So, why is Autumn so important in New York?
The answer is simple: New York is a place of constant change. New Yorkers are reminded of this change when the leaves fall, when the storefronts change, and when the tourists come back to enjoy the city. From Thanksgiving to New Year, we will be flooded by tourists. And I'm glad this is as much a constant as the swallows coming back to Capistrano each year.










