Over the past few weeks, I've been trying to compose a letter I want to send to someone who once was special to me. Inside this letter, I mention something important - if we ended a romance when we should have, I'd be asking my closest friend for important advice instead of feeling sad about a friendship that ended poorly.
Why do I mention this?
This weekend, I had dates with two ladies. Both of them are interested in me. Both would be good choices for me. Both know about me in my masculine and feminine presentations. And I was reminded of this joke:
Shortly after Utah statehood, a young Mormon man was in love with his two prospective brides, Katherine and Edith, and wanted to marry them both. However, he was not aware of the most recent revelation coming from the church in Salt Lake City when he brought his two fiancees to the local LDS church to be married to him.
He approached the minister of his church and asked him to perform the marriage ceremony. The minister said that he couldn't perform the dual ceremony. And the young man asked the minister
"Why?"
The minister replied:
"Son, you should know that you can't have your Kate and Edith too."
Yes, this is a corny joke, but it illustrates the dilemma I now have. On one date, I ended up in a very heavy petting session, where if we had been at either of our apartments, we'd have been going at it like rabbits. On the other date, we were about to break up, as she found my Marian Mode personal ad and was upset at me - but wanted to stay friends. This would have solved my dilemma of having one too many girl friends. However, we went back to her apartment, where I showed the physical connection that this woman was looking for. So we ended up chatting, and not breaking up after all
As I said, either woman would be a very good choice for me. But I can't have them both - none of us are polyamorous. If my dad were alive, he'd tell me what I could do without providing me a solution to my problem. Sadly, I no longer have him to ask for advice. And this is a time I really wish I could ask him for urgently needed advice. How do I figure out which one is best for me?
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