My journey towards femininity, with all the bumps in the road. Who knows where this road will lead? But it certainly will be a prettier road, and one well worth traveling.
Showing posts with label Old Croton Aqueduct. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Old Croton Aqueduct. Show all posts
Sunday, May 31, 2020
Exercise
Lately, I've been getting out and about on days where the sun is out and when I'm not working. I've been trying to build up my time and distance endurance before I decide to do some serious hiking with groups in the region.
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Given that in male mode, I am bald, wearing a wig and going out for a long walk doesn't make any sense. Without makeup, my face looks masculine, and that's not the image I want to present on the trails. So I have decided to exercise in male mode. 😢 This is a hard choice for me, but one I needed to make.
Since the quarantine began, I've been out of the house as much as Mario as I have been as Marian. It's certainly strange to be finding some practicality for my male presentation. But with a life like mine, I'm used to "strange" by now. But after one outing as Marian with a little bit of blush on my face, reality hit me in the face. If I had decided to go all the way and have FFS, plus hair transplants, I'd be out as Marian. Yet, I'm not uncomfortable as Mario anymore. I can live in a half and half mode.
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Recently, people have started to go outside to enjoy the outdoors. Theaters are still closed, restaurants are only open for takeout in New York, and there are few diversions open to the public, save for walking in a local park. And the local parks have been overrun. In the case of Croton Dam Park (and its vicinity), the park is overflowing with cars, the road stub which once crossed the dam is packed with cars, and the overflow from that stub led to cars being parked on both sides of the road for a half mile up and down from the road stub. The county has had to put up signs to tell the public that this overflow parking is prohibited, and that cars will be towed if necessary. This has caused me to drive further North to enjoy my nature walks.
Virtually all of the walking I have done has been North of me, save for two walks along the Old Croton Aqueduct. I'll save walks along the aqueduct trail for days I don't have much time to drive to a trail head for walking. Most of the time, I've driven North to places which are (at least) an hour away from here, such as the Harlem Valley Rail Trail, Walkill Valley Rail Trail, and Dutchess County Rail Trail. Some of these trails are well maintained, such as the Dutchess trail. And others are poorly maintained, such as the Walkill Valley trail. I wonder what the O&W Rail Trail will look like when I go there. However, I will need to make sure to avoid certain sections of it for personal reasons.
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Soon, I expect to see restaurants in the Hudson Valley open up, now that the region is meeting the governor's criteria for reopening the economy. Once this happens, I'll walk a trail in the Kingston area and visit The Little Bear again. Hopefully, they will have survived the shutdown, and will again be serving great meals.
Sunday, May 24, 2020
I'm Back online again!
The above picture was taken on the Old Croton Aqueduct path. Considering how many people have been out and about, now that the nice days are here, I usually have to travel far to find nice places to walk and get back into shape.
I've decided to reopen this blog, so that I can continue to journal my life as quarantine is gradually being lifted. At first, I won't be publishing daily posts, as I don't have that much to say. In addition, I won't have much to say about either of my two formerly closest friends, now that bridges have been burnt.
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To catch the casual reader of this blog up to date, quarantine has been hell for me, as I've been dealing with grief caused by the loss (not death) of my two closest friends, the death of my father, and the virtual shutdown of my social life due to the quarantine. I won't go into details, save that anger made me a person I didn't like being, and I had to decide to let go of many things so that I could move forward with my life.
Since I don't know if my ex will read this blog or not, let's simply say that before the quarantine, I had a couple of nice dates with a nice woman, but things didn't work out. Lately, I've had some pleasant calls with other women, and it would be nice to see them after quarantine ends.
Work at the census bureau has started to return, and I'm still adding money to my bank account. If all goes right, I'll have saved up enough, that by the end of the year, I can take a Hawaiian cruise. However, this poses several interesting issues. I want to take the 3 day land + 7 day sea cruise tour deal, but an ex girlfriend from 23 years ago will be on that cruise with 3 of her girlfriends. Should I take it and out myself to her first? Or, should I simply go on the cruise and say nothing? (I'm assuming that she will not recognize me as Marian.) I'm gambling both that the net price for this cruise will drop due to cancellations, etc., and that things will open up for cruising in the fall.
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So much I could say, but not the time to collect my thoughts. More later....
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