I pass over the Bear Mountain Bridge several times each month. But when I looked at the above photo, I was reminded of how rarely I go to this tower to get a view of the Hudson River "from above". This picture was taken over a decade ago, before things started to go sour in my life. And it also reminds me that there will be a time after the virus is long past.
Why do I mention this right now?
For most of us, 2020 has been a terrible year. I lost my dad. My niece has had to postpone her wedding 3 times, and friends have lost their jobs due to the virus. And I am one of the "Lucky" ones. My dad lived a full 92 years, my niece is living with her fiancee (having recovered from Covid-19), and my friends have been able to find work. Others have had it much, much worse than me, my friends, and my family.
Things are starting to look up for us. Initial deliveries of the Coronavirus vaccines are being scheduled, planning for mass inoculations is taking place, and the economy is recovering. If we're lucky, by this time next year, 2020 will be a bad, but persistent memory.
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2020 was remarkable in many ways for me. It was the first year in a long while where I didn't have a girlfriend to curl up with in private. Yet, it allowed me to go to work as Marian for the better part of 10 months. During the year, I met new people, and was able to develop at least 1 new friendship. No, this friendship may not be as deep as the ones I lost last year. But it is a start for me.
Having worked at the census for the better part of 10 months as Marian, I feel confident that I will be able to find work again as Marian. This may turn off some people. But I don't care much about them. Unless I'm living with a woman who needs to see Mario most of the time, I'd like to be living as much of my life as Marian as possible.
2021, I hope, will be a year which I finally get my weight under control. My goal is to be wearing size 18 clothes within the next 2 years. Yes, I'll have to replace both of my wardrobes, but it will be worth it if I'm successful. Additionally, I'd like to be in a new serious relationship by the end of next year. (I miss the touch of someone next to me in bed.) Hopefully, I'll finally be able to take a Hawaiian cruise, preferably as Marian.
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