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Last night, my brother returned from England, and didn't text me to let me know he got in. He and his two adult children were doing a little sightseeing while visiting my niece's future in-laws. I'm jealous of them. But I'll eventually have the chance to visit my niece and her future husband in their new home. So I have something to look forward to. Until then, I'm just an afterthought for my brother and his family. But more on that later....
Today is my dad's birthday. That means I will need to be in my male presentation when I go to Long Island. Because of this scheduling requirement, I was sure to schedule my annual physical for the same day, so that I wouldn't need to change from Marian to Mario. And this meant that I had to be ready to start my day early, then not know exactly when I'd be expected to be at my brother's place.
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The first thing I had to do was to go to the doctor. And I arrived at his office at the same time as the doctor. Since this was my yearly physical, he had a few more questions to ask of me, and suggested that I get my eyes checked and to schedule a colonoscopy. Even though it is less than an hour after I left the office as I write this, I already forgot what I should be asking for with my eyes. (I can ask the doc about that again when I see him in a month.) But I'll have to see if the doc who performed my last colonoscopy is covered under my insurance and whether his assistant staff is also covered. Otherwise, I will need to ask my internist for other recommendations of people who may be on my insurance plan.
When I got out of the doc's office, I got a call back after picking up breakfast - they forgot to ask for a urine sample. So back to the office I went for 5 minutes, and then onto the house to rest. Looking at the phone, my brother finally acknowledged my messages, telling me that he is back from England. Unfortunately, he hadn't yet figured out what he plans to with my dad for his birthday. So it meant that I would have to be ready for anything. And I found out that my brother was going in to work today, then do something tomorrow. As for me, I decided to drive to Long Island to see my dad in the daytime.
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It took me over 2 hours to reach my dad. Traffic was much worse than usual, and I hit all the traffic jams that I could have expected and more. But I made it there a little bit before my brother, and by 6 pm, we were on our way to the Japanese buffet to enjoy dinner. Luckily, my sister in law did not join us, as she had a "meeting" to go to tonight. So the 4 of us felt free to each have a beer and to relax over a leisurely dinner.
Towards the end of the evening, my brother started showing photos of the family trip to England, and I started getting bored. Yet, I didn't want the evening to end. There are not that many family gatherings left in my dad's life, and I want to be there for as many as possible.
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Around 8:30-9:00 or so, we brought my dad back to the nursing home, and I started my drive back to my apartment. Shortly before I got home, GFJ returned my call and we chatted for a few minutes. It appears that she will also be busy during the holiday season, so this will be the second straight holiday with us not being together. Although I will make New Year's Eve open for her if she wants to be together, I have plans in mind if she were to make it a third holiday of being apart. At that point, unless I am misinterpreting things, she will have sent a signal without saying anything definite.... Such is life.
