My journey towards femininity, with all the bumps in the road. Who knows where this road will lead? But it certainly will be a prettier road, and one well worth traveling.
Saturday, February 28, 2026
Another Jammie Day (a short post)
Saturday, February 21, 2026
I did plenty of nothing, and nothing's plenty for me.
I didn't think much of writing anything today, as I had nothing much to say. I didn't get up until 10:30, and only made it to the sofa for most of the day. It was a classic jammie day, where staying in a warm apartment made much more sense than going outside. There was food in the freezer, Cokes in the icebox, and bread in the breadbox. I could easily get by for a few days if needed.
What I did do was fine tune the cruise blog entry that I screwed up over the weekend, and get it ready to be published next month. No, it won't be as good as my original post. But it will be good enough for people to read and learn something from. And that's all I want for now.
Sometime late in the afternoon, I got a text from my brother. One of my cousins is being moved into hospice, and I'd like to see him before he passes away. Now, I didn't get from whom he got the information, nor did I get a call back number for the relative who made the call.
With one exception, all of my cousins are older than I am by 10 years or more, and I have only seen one of them in the past 20 years. So, it won't be a great loss for me, as none of them ever made the effort to develop a close relationship with me. If I'm lucky, I'll get to see him before he may be moved to another hospital. If not, I'll have made a long drive for nothing, as I will not ruin a weekend with RQS, nor will I give up any more of the Marian time I had scheduled for the weekend.
To make things worse - On Saturday, I'll have to take mass transit to get to RQS's place, as there is no available street parking there. And I'll have to make it back here by Monday for lunch with a friend, then a co-op board meeting.
Wednesday, February 18, 2026
Last night, a typo erased a week's worth of work.
As I've mentioned before, I have a travel related blog for which entries are published on a monthly basis. Due to a typo I made on my Chromebook with a mistaken way of trying to prevent a loss of data, I lost my March 2026 entry. Luckily, I can reconstruct most of what I've written, but not everything. So, I'll spend the better part of this week rewriting the entry.
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I didn't get any sleep last night, so I made a decision not to start the blog post rewrite until tomorrow. With this being said, I was able to relax a little, knowing that I didn't have to jump into any hard work until tomorrow.
Every Sunday, I make a decision when at my house - do I go to church or stay in bed. A warm, comfy bed wins out most weeks. This week, it was a no brainier - stay home and rest. I would likely fall asleep during mass anyway. (And I did fall asleep after RQS cooked breakfast.)
Both of us decided to make it a Jammie day, We watched YouTube videos, as well as watched movies on the TV. We now miss our nightly routine of watching the Perry Mason series, as it is no longer available on Amazon for free. (I guess I'm going to kill my Hulu subscription and take one up with Paramount Plus.)
When I had a moment, I decided to look up the church schedule, and found out why services were being held in one building and not the other this month - the building in which I usually would go to is being used as a homeless shelter in this frigid weather. Although I don't think they planned for this sub-freezing weather, I'm glad that they had perfect timing for helping the homeless. Next, I found that ALL the pictures I uploaded to Blogger were intact. So I don't have to upload them a second time as I rewrite the blog entry.
Tomorrow, RQS goes home and I expect to be busy. So, I need to recharge. More later.
Monday, January 5, 2026
A weekend with RQS, getting ready for Xmas
As I write this, we're all getting ready for Xmas, and Amazon boxes are going here and there. RQS has has some of her boxes shipped here, And I've had to make sure that boxes containing small Xmas gifts for her don't arrive when she's here. This is not a big thing. But it is something I have to stay aware of before the holiday.
Sunday came, and Amazon delivered the SIM card for her new phone. It was a little bit of an effort to get her new phone plan set up, in part because the SIM Card ID was not easily legible without assistance, and that the setup would be more easily done on a laptop, and not the cell phone itself.
At that point, RQS started a little bit of cleanup around the place, while I edited my co-op's website to include some government contacts as part of the "useful contact" page. And then I joined in the cleaning effort for a little while. After getting some room freed up on the dining room table, RQS started to work on some of her art on a "clean" surface.
Later that day, we put a spatchcocked chicken in the oven and feasted on the bird when it was fully cooked. We took out some stuffing I had prepared the day before, and, with a salad, we had a filling dinner. This wasn't much to talk about. But the day wasn't that eventful either. In short, this was a Jammie day that went well.
And now, back to my everyday life
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