It's hard to plan things these days
I don't know how I stumbled onto the above picture of Alfred and Alice E. Newman. But it illustrates how the true essence of an individual will show through, no matter the gender presentation of that individual. In my case, my true friends see me as the same person in both male and female modes, although they are sometimes surprised when I show up in the alternate presentation. - - - - - - Planning my gender presentation can be a hassle. For example, I have a book at the library that I want to pick up, and that requires that I show myself in Mario mode. Yet, RQS and I plan to get a Mani-Pedi this weekend, so I will need to present myself as Marian for my visit to the nail spa. This is a typical scheduling problem for me, as I have to figure out ways to do some things that require Mario to be present, while I will be out as Marian later in the day. However, once I'm wearing nail polish, I'm stuck in Marian mode for the better part of a week (or more). I have other sc